Thursday, March 15, 2007

What it takes to be a Dad

I read a great article today by C. Adams and had to share to my friends who are dads (although ladies are invited to read as well).

What it takes to be a dad
* read to your children
* keep your promises
* go for walks together
* let your children help with household projects
* spend time one-on-one with each child
* tell your children about your own childhood
* go to the zoo, museums, ball games as a family
* set a good example
* use good manners
* help your children with their homework
* show your children lots of warmth and affection
* set clear, consistent limits
* consider how your decisions will affect your children
* listen to your children
* know your children’s friends
* take your children to work
* open a savings account for your children
* resolve conflict quickly
* take your children to church

(not an exhaustive list, but a great start)

Please use this list to pray that I will be a good and godly dad to my three children. Each day I realize more and more that they are watching and mimicking me.

If you are a dad - use this list to remind you.
If you are a wife - pray through this list for your husband.
If you are a single lady - pray for a future husband with these qualities.
If you are a single man - pray that you will demonstrate these qualities.
If you are a pastor - pray for the men in your church.
If you are local church member - be an example to the young generation.

2 comments:

carissa said...

hi friends,
Are you planning on coming here next month for missions conference? We'd love to see you all!
We're praying for you

Anonymous said...

Hi David & Kristi. It has been far too many years since we have touched base with you and your family! I am really happy to discover your blog and hope to keep in better touch. David, please say "hi" to your parents for us. We think of them and of Berean often.

On another note, I enjoyed reading your list of qualities that make a good father. It does make an excellent list to pray through. Thank you for creating a blog that challenges us in our walk with Christ and reflects a life of godliness!