Saturday, September 27, 2008

Chapter 2 - Page 2 (Sat. 27th update)

Thankfully all three kids let us sleep in a while this morning. Isn't it appealing just to stay in bed and not deal with anything? Exhaustion from all the activity of three kids in the house plus the mental strain and stress of the last few days has made us feel "blah".

Most of the morning we caught up on emails, Facebook, and blog comments by our family, friends, and supporters. Thank you to those who have sent encouraging comments and e-cards.

Today was Ben's 6th birthday, and we took him to Mr. Gatti's Pizza for lunch and games. We left around 11:15 am and stayed till 1:30. We all had a great time. I will post about Ben's special day in the very near future (with pictures).

This afternoon, Ben opened a couple presents and then the boys played outside with some friends while the rest of us took a nap.

This evening, we all spent some time outside walking around campus and talking with friends and neighbors. At some point tonight, I (David) will need to spend some time at my desk working on homework, but just the thought of that right now isn't pleasant.

Plans are to go to church tomorrow, depending on how Kristi is doing and feeling. Today, she felt ok all day, except for being tired. Continue to pray for her in the upcoming days. She will need strength (mental & physical) to go through the next several days.

Continue to check back on the blog
for more updates as time allows.

Friday, September 26, 2008

God's Plan Chapter 2

Chapter one of God's plan for our time here at language school was the trial/blessing of our mini van accident in Aug. God was faithful. God provided for our needs. God taught us many lessons about trusting Him and walking by faith.

Chapter two of God's plan for our time here at language school started with a seemingly complicated, but exciting, plot twist of a fourth child coming in March. Emotional excitement was felt by all. Family and friends were told. In the back of our minds, we occasionally thought, "How are we going to manage with four?" Again, we were reminded of the lessons "learned" in chapter one...trust in God and walk by faith. "God, you must, you can and you will help us again", was our declaration to God.

Halfway through chapter two, we found out that we lost the baby. Just one week after hearing the heartbeat for the first time at a doctor's appointment, there was no heartbeat. Two, three, four nurses checked and double checked. It was clear, God for reasons unknown to us today, chose to take the baby. Hard phone calls were made to family and friends. We all enjoy cliff hanger plots and twists, but not in our own life's story! The roller coaster ride of last week was emotionally exhausting.

We don't know how the events of chapter two will tie into future chapters of God's plan in our lives, but WE TRUST HIM. He is the great author of life and death, the Sovereign Loving Creator and Savior. Although grief is here now in our midst, a joy of knowing God gives peace amidst chaos, and rest amidst exhaustion.

The lyrics to a poem, by Stephen Altrogge, entitled "All That I Need", have been of great comfort to us during this time of trial, loss, and testing.

In You is strength to sustain me
And wisdom enough to guide my hand
Mercy enough to forgive me
And power to finish what You began

All that I need is in You, Jesus
The fountain of grace that overflows
All that I need is in You, Jesus
You are my only hope
You are my only hope

In You is fullness of gladness
And fullness of grace for every need
Rest for the ones who are weary
And beauty surpassing all that we’ve seen

All that I need is in You, Jesus
The fountain of grace that overflows
All that I need is in You, Jesus
You are my only hope
You are my only hope

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We would appreciate your prayer in the following areas:

1. Kristi's delivery date (either this weekend - naturally; or next Tuesday - induced)

2. Kristi's physical recovery

3. The process of grieving

4. Wisdom for upcoming financial decisions

5. For David as he attempts to balance a heavy school load and helping Kristi and family at home.

We would ask for a measure of privacy (ie phone calls) until after Kristi is home from the hospital next week. You can communicate with us via email, snail mail, or comments on the blog.

Continue to check back on the blog for further updates.

Monday, September 22, 2008

FAQs - Frequently Asked Baby Questions

After posting one little picture in our last entry,
questions have been coming to us on many fronts;
via Skype, cell phone, email, Facebook, comments on the blog, and in person.

This post is dedicated to attempt to answer
all those frequently asked questions:

#1 - When is Kristi due? Around the first week of March, 2009.

#2 - How far along is Kristi? 16 weeks

#3 - Why did you wait so long to share this secret? It's a long and frustrating story...but here is the Cliff Note's version. We found out in early July, several weeks before driving back down here to Texas. After arriving back at language school, we attempted to find a clinic/OBGYN that was in the area that worked with our provider. After four weeks of phone conversations with our provider and local doctors, Kristi finally was able to have her first check up and ultra-sound.

Then came the dilemma of who do we tell and when. It was a little easier to keep it a secret since we are living in South Texas...far, far away from family and friends . It came time to spill the beans with those here on campus, since Kristi was starting to "show" (yeah...whatever!). Several family members were either traveling or moving during a stretch of several weeks, so we waited until all of that dust settled. Sorry we couldn't personally call every one of you...but rest assured that each of you all have a special place in our hearts.

#4 - Was this a surprise to you both? Yes & No...we will leave it at that.

#5 - Are you guys done? (Still can't believe people ask this question...but oh, well) Only God knows...but probably, YES!!!!!!

#6 - Do you want to know the gender? Yes. It would help greatly in the weeding out process of baby clothing we currently own.

#7 - Did the nurse tell you what the gender (most likely) was? Yes
#8 - What were Jordan, Ben, & Kaylee's reaction to the news? Very, very excited. They all have offered their future "help" with the baby and around the house. We will see if that really pans out.

#9 - How has Kristi been feeling? She has been doing quite well. No major sickness issues. Occasional bad days. Mostly just gets run down easily and more frequent trips to the baño.

#10 - How will this new addition affect your departure goal of Jan. 2009 for Chile? The short answer is...we don't know exactly, but we are stepping out in faith for the Lord to provide the remaining funds so that our family can leave in mid. Jan.

The longer answer is...we are still are 79% support and will continue to pray and seek the Lord in waiting for churches and individuals to partner with our ministry this Fall. We are waiting until mid to late Oct to make a better informed decision about the reality of departing in Jan. 09. If our support comes in, we are totally comfortable (esp. Kristi) in having the baby in Chile. Chile has excellent clinics, doctors, and delivery care. Continue to pray for our family as we Set Our Hope in God during this time of change, uncertainty, and bends in the road.

#11 - When can we hold the new baby? There is an open invitation to anyone of our family, friends, or supporters to come to Chile and do just that ;)

#12 - Is there anything that you need for this new baby? Yeah....wisdom, patience, and a mess of diapers (pun intended). No, really, nothing at this point in Texas (except maybe for toilet paper), since we will be flying home. Once back in Minnesota this Dec., we will be buying several baby items to pack in our shipping container for Chile.

Continue to check back on the blog for more
updates, stories, and prayer items for our family.

Saturday, September 20, 2008

Table for Six Please


To be continued...

Feliz Dieciocho!! (Happy 18th)

Feliz Dieciocho!

Sept. 18th is Chile's Day of Independence.


Our family celebrated by inviting the only Chilean Bible Institute student at RGBI over for a typical Chilean meal. Sebastián (below) is one of my personal Spanish tutors this semester. He has become a special friend and teacher due to our Chile ties.

(Above) Kristi made a wonderful cazuela (chicken stew - recipe)
and ensalada Chilena (typical tomato & sweet onion Chilean salad).

Those interested in browsing other Chilean recipes...click HERE

We enjoyed our evening, the conversation (in Spanish...of course),
and the good food. We all stuffed ourselves.
A great
(although short) diversion from our studies!

Monday, September 15, 2008

Ship Ahoy!

Our mini van was dropped off at the Miami docks today to be shipped to Chile! It will take several weeks for the boat to get to Chile. Upon arrival, our field director will submit the paperwork to start the 3 month long process to release it from customs.


Thank you for your prayers concerning this matter.
Lord willing, when we arrive in Chile,
we will be able to drive the van and use it in the ministry.


We will keep you posted on the progress.

Saturday, September 13, 2008

Declaring War on Pigeons

The following was taken from an online article that I thought would shed some light on some of the conditions in the city of Antofagasta (we are praying about living and ministering in that city in the future).
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The cities of the world are ideal habitat for the proliferation of the pigeon, or rock dove, a picturesque species that actually poses health and environmental risks.


Experts recommend not feeding them, refitting buildings that provide roosting sites, and controlling garbage in order to keep the pigeon population in check.

Chile declared pigeons "prejudicial or harmful" in 2004 and authorized hunting of these birds.

They carry pathogenic agents that can be transmitted to other birds or to humans, and their excrement, rich in uric acid, "corrodes homes, buildings, monuments and machinery," he said.

Above: A photo I took while in Antofagasta in Jan. 07.
Pigeons are a major problem due to the lack of rain,
thus causing the city to be covered in...well...you know.


Pigeons can spread bacteria like salmonella, which causes gastrointestinal illness; Chlamydophila, which causes severe respiratory distress and fever; yeasts like Cryptococcus neoformans, which can affect the meninges and the central nervous system; and parasites like the red mite, which is linked to dermatological problems.

In addition to leaving unsightly messes, the bird droppings damage air-conditioning systems and can ruin products stored in warehouses, causing economic losses.

Originating in Europe, Asia and North Africa, the rock dove was introduced to the Americas as a domesticated bird in the 16th century, but soon began to reproduce in the wild.

The main reasons for the abundance of pigeons are their longevity (they live 15 to 20 years), the lack of natural predators, and their prolific breeding. They live in pairs and can produce as many as 12 fledglings per year.

But the uncontrolled increase of this species in cities goes hand in hand with urban conditions: buildings with many crevices and niches where they can make their nests, and an abundance of food waste, as well as the popular custom of feeding them.

Pigeons eat seeds and fruit, but they also eat whatever human food they can find.

The number of pigeons in Chile is unknown, but their proliferation in cities led to the declaration that they are harmful to health and the environment. The Law on Hunting authorizes that they can be taken in unlimited numbers and their nests can be destroyed, in any season and anywhere in the country. But the use of chemicals is banned because they can have harmful effects on other species.

"Their mere elimination does not solve the problem. On the contrary, it has been shown as a cause behind the increase in their population in the medium term," because the possibility for survival increases as there is less competition for resources, said Pedro Varas, a veterinarian with the Santiago regional health ministry.

(Read the entire article from the Source)

In Acceptance Lieth Peace

Amy Carmichael was born in the small village in Ireland. Her parents were devout Presbyterians; she was the oldest of seven children. She was adopted and tutored by Robert Wilson, co-founder of the Keswick Convention.

One story of Carmichael's early life tells that as a child, she wished that she had blue eyes rather than brown. She often prayed that God would change her eye color and was disappointed when it never happened. As an adult, however, she realized that, because Indians have brown eyes, she would have had a much more difficult time gaining their acceptance if her eyes had been blue.


Carmichael's father died when she was eighteen. In many ways she was an unlikely candidate for missionary work. She suffered neuralgia, a disease of the nerves that made her whole body weak and achy and often put her in bed for weeks on end. It was at the Keswick Convention of 1887 that she heard Hudson Taylor, founder of the China Inland Mission speak about missionary life. Soon afterward, she became convinced of her calling to missionary work.


She applied to the China Inland Mission and lived in London at the training house for women, where she met author and missionary to China, Mary Geraldine Guinness, who encouraged her to pursue missionary work. She was ready to sail for Asia at one point, when it was determined that her health made her unfit for the work. She postponed her missionary career with the CIM and decided later to join the Church Missionary Society.


Initially Carmichael traveled to Japan for fifteen months, but after a brief period of service in Sri Lanka, she found her lifelong vocation in India. She was commissioned by the Church of England Zenana Mission. Hindu temple children were young girls dedicated to the gods and forced into prostitution to earn money for the priests. Much of her work was with young ladies, some of whom were saved from forced prostitution. The organization she founded was known as the Dohnavur Fellowship. Dohnavur is situated thirty miles from the southern tip of India. The fellowship would become a sanctuary for over one thousand children who would otherwise have faced a bleak future.


In an effort to respect Indian culture, members of the organization wore Indian dress and the children were given Indian names. She herself dressed in Indian clothes, dyed her skin with coffee, and often traveled long distances on India's hot, dusty roads to save just one child from suffering.


While serving in India, Amy received a letter from a young lady who was considering life as a missionary. She asked Amy, "What is missionary life like?" Amy wrote back saying simply,

"Missionary life is simply a chance to die."

If you, or your family is looking for a good missionary biography to read, I would suggest reading, A Chance to Die: The Life and Legacy of Amy Carmichael by Elisabeth Elliot.




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My phonetics professor gave us a copy of one of Amy Carmichael's poems in class on Friday, and I wanted to share it with you as a reminder to all of us to accept what God brings into our lives and ministries. So often we want to resist, become over active, withdraw, or give up when things do go our way. It is only in acceptance where peace lies.

In Acceptance Lieth Peace

He said, "I will forget the dying faces;
The empty places --
They shall be filled again.
O voices moaning deep within me, cease."
But in vain the word; vain, vain:
Not in forgetting lieth peace.

He said, "I will crowd action upon action;
The strife of faction
Shall stir me and sustain.
O tears that drown the fire of manhood, cease."
But vain the word; vain, vain:
Not in endeavor lieth peace.

He said, "I will withdraw me and be quiet;
Why meddle in life's riot?
Shut by my door to pain.
Desire, thou dost befool me; thou shalt cease."
But vain the word; vain, vain:
Not in aloofness lieth peace.

He said, "I will submit; I am defeated.
God hath depleted
My life of its rich gain.
O futile murmurings, why will ye not cease!"
But vain the word; vain, vain:
Not in submission lieth peace.

He said, "I will accept the breaking sorrow
Which God tomorrow
Will to His Son explain."
Then did the turmoil deep within him cease.
Not vain the word, not vain;
For in acceptance lieth peace.

Taken from Mountain Breezes: The Collected Poems of Amy Carmichael page 293.

Wednesday, September 10, 2008

Mini Van Shipping & Ike (Thurs PM) Update

Hurricane Ike Update (Thursday PM)

Ike's eye looks like it will go way north of us. We probably will not even get much rain at all. Continue to follow Ike's path HERE.




Mini Van Update:

1. All the paper-work has been submitted to the shipper in Miami (Dawn Freight).

2. Dawn Freight is preparing the booking for the container.

3. Once they complete the booking, they'll notify our mission office to deliver the van to the docks in Ft. Lauderdale, FL.

4. Full payment for the shipping will happen at that time of the drop off.

5. Dawn Freight will give our mission office a copy of the Bill of Lading.


6. The necessary paperwork has already been mailed to our field director in Chile so that he will able to obtain a decree necessary to import the van into Chile.


Please keep this process in your prayers. Our desire is for the van to arrive safely and that the paperwork will got through so that we can be able to drive the vehicle upon our arrive (Lord willing in Jan. 2009).

We will continue to keep you updated on this process.

Saturday, September 6, 2008

Meet the Niemeyers

We mentioned the Niemeyer family in a previous post, be we wanted to officially introduce you to them and let you know how their family has been a special blessing to us in the very short time that we have known them.

John & Laura Niemeyer
Morgan (13), Chase (11), Trey (8), & Mackenzie (5)

We first heard of the Niemeyer family, while our family was on a two month survey trip in Chile (Dec. 2003 - Jan. 2004). We hadn't yet chosen a mission board at that time, and we were visiting different missionaries from different mission boards. While visiting a Baptist Mid-Missions family in Santiago, they told us of a family from Ohio, who was on deputation and would be coming to Chile in the future. After our survey trip, we went on to chose our mission board and started deputation. If we would have chosen BMM, we would have been the Niemeyer's co-workers. Now, the Lord has brought our families together here at language school for one semester.


We are thankful that the Niemeyer family attends the same Spanish church on Sundays. It has been a great opportunity for our children to get to know each other in a better way during their Sunday school classes. Ben and Chase have become close friends and they sit together during the services often.

Throughout the semester, we have been able to get together several times.
Above:
We recently celebrated Chase's 8th birthday.

Last but not least...John and Laura have graciously allowed our family to use their second mini van throughout the rest of the semester. This was an unselfish act and their response to our lack of a vehicle was, "...the Lord has been so good to us in providing two vehicles. Our vehicles are the Lord's and we know you should use our van. No strings attached."

The Niemeyer family is just one of the many families here at language school that God has providentially brought into our path for friendship, encouragement, and even future fellowship in Chile.

This could be the beginning of a beautiful friendship. Language school is so much more than grammar and phonetics!


Tuesday, September 2, 2008

Little Miss Kaylee

To all my friends and family,
I (Kaylee) thought I would tell you what I have been up to recently.
We drove and drove and drove down to Texas several weeks ago
and now we are at our home...our Texas home.

It's hot here, which means I don't get to play outside
until the sun is falling behind the buildings.

It's been raining a lot too.
Too many mosquitoes are outside, and they bite me.

Most of my time, I play with with Jordan and Ben with the toys we haven't seen since May. Sometimes we fight over the toys and I cry...I'm working on not doing that anymore.

The boys just started school and I hang out with them and look at what they are doing. Mommy tries to get me to play in the other room, but what she doesn't realize is that I love school too!

Daddy took me out on a date on Saturday morning. Just the two of us. No brothers allowed. I woke up daddy early so we could go out for pancakes at McDonald's. I ate all of my breakfast. Daddy was trying to get me to look at him when he was telling me how much he loves me, but I was too interested in all the people walking around. It's Jordan's turn next Saturday.

The other day I was excited about going out to get my first haircut with Mommy.
Left is what I looked like before, and Right is what I look like now.





























I sat real still and the hair cutter lady gave me stickers
and an award paper with a little piece of my hair on it.

My new friends in Texas are Alessandra, Morgan, Mackenzie, Grace, and Lydia.
I miss all my other friends in MN and my cousins
and friends who live in other places.
Maybe I can see you again soon.

My new favorite snack food is Strawberry Whoppers
that I bought with my own money that Grandma F. sent me in the mail.
Thanks Grandma!

Well...it's time for my nap.
I usually take a nap on mom and dad's bed,
cause the boys are too loud in my bedroom.